FATHER Where Credit Is Due
Whether I am for or against the war is irrelevant. We are in it, and the least we can do is recognize and credit the ones putting their lives on the line. As a society we owe it to ourselves to recognize the heroes among us. Without that recognition, how do we know who to look up to? How do we know that acts of courage are possible for us too?The same is true in business. We have heard too many heartbreaking stories of executives cooking the books and lying to their shareholders. Too many celebrity CEOs have graced the cover of Business Week as the latest saviors of their companies, only to make return appearancess in the role of greedy wheeler-dealers desperately trying to cut a deal to save their own hides. The CEO villain has become a cultural commonplace.
But in protecting ourselves from being labeled villains, we have also cut off the possibility of being known as true heroes. And in doing so, we undercut the ground where leaders are encouraged to take a risk, step up, and do something great.
We sure can use some inspired leaders to follow right about now.
SON Skip the Press Release
The telling line from the article my Dad is referring to comes from a military historian who said, "The cult of celebrity has cheapened fame, what's a war hero to do? Go on 'Oprah'?" In a disposable culture that trashes people quicker than it does automobiles, you become acknowledged as a hero at your own peril. Do a publicly recognized good deed this week and next week you risk being exposed for smoking pot under the bleachers in 11th grade. Why put a hero through the press junket? Why poke and prod at someone's authentic experience? Our 500-channel culture where celebrity is king has made true heroes go underground—they have no interest in getting mixed up with the Trumps and reality-TV freaks—people who use their reputations to hawk Visa Cards and pizzas. True heroes do their jobs above and beyond. But when the battle or workday is over, most of them would prefer to have a normal life with family and friends. Do they want parades and coverage? I suspect the soldier would say, "Keep the medal and make sure I have decent veteran's benefits," and the corporate manager would add, "Skip the press release, but protect my pension."